I remember walking into a magazine shop and feeling like the world was whispering to me.

Every issue… every cover… every writer’s name on the articles… it was like a map to someplace deeper.
It was never just about information… it was about being moved.
Growing… learning…
Becoming more interesting about the things I was already interested in.
It was my own, personal, space.

I miss places like that (they still exist… I just don’t feel the same way about them).

Not necessarily the paper or the ink (though… maybe that too)… but the feeling.
The feeling that we were absorbing the world more slowly… more deliberately… in paces and spaces.
No notifications to distract.
No other shiny objects occupying the same square footage.
No illusion of being somewhere physically while you’re actually somewhere else mentally.

Just… presence.

And lately, I’ve been wondering…
Have we completely lost that?
Are we okay with how distracted we’ve become?

Because here’s the thing:

The moments that shape us most… they’re rarely loud.
They don’t arrive with hashtags or sirens.
They sneak in.
A death.
A fire.
A conversation that shakes you gently but deeply.
A glance from someone who knows exactly what you’re thinking (even when they’re a stranger).

We keep looking for clarity in the scroll.

But most things you can only hear when the noise stops.
There’s a kind of wisdom that doesn’t come from being on all the time.
It comes from knowing when to turn off.
To be still… to pay closer attention… not to more… but to less.

There are people – rare ones – who have built lives around that kind of noticing.

Not to escape the world… but to feel it more precisely.
To catch the flickers we’ve learned to scroll past.

I’ve been thinking a lot about that lately.

Not in the context of productivity.
Not in the context of self-optimization.
Not in the context of performance.
Just… stillness.

Stillness not as retreat but as re-entry.

Because when everything gets too loud (and it will), the silence isn’t just a refuge… it’s a reminder.
So if things feel a little overwhelming…
Or like your thoughts are buried under five layers of noise… ask yourself:

What would I hear if the volume out there was turned down?

Maybe the better question is:

What have I been missing by keeping it turned up?

A rant inspired by this week’s Six Pixels of Separation – The ThinkersOne Podcast with Pico Iyer (one of those “rare ones” I mentioned earlier and author of Aflame – Learning From Silence).

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