We like to think our beliefs are true…
That they’re grounded in facts… rational… earned through experience.
That belief itself is proof.
That if we believe something strongly enough… it must be right.
But the more I think about it… the less convinced I am.
And the more I reflect on my conversation with Nir Eyal (who has been on the show many times before and just published a brilliant and new book called, Beyond Belief – Change Your Mind, Change Your Life) on this week’s episode of Thinking With Mitch Joel… the more I realized something both obvious and uncomfortable…
Most of what we believe isn’t true.
It’s useful.. or at least… it was useful at some point.
That’s a very different way to think about belief.
Because we tend to treat beliefs like facts (or, at least, I did for a very long time).
Fixed… defensible… part of who we are.
But Nir reframes belief in a way that struck me and is now stuck with me…
Beliefs aren’t truths… they’re tools.
And like any tool… they can help you or they can hurt you.
Or worse… they can keep you stuck.
Think about how many times you’ve known exactly what to do…
Get in better shape… have the hard conversation… change direction… take the risk… the list goes on…
The information isn’t the problem.
The answer is sitting right there.
And yet… nothing happens… or we do nothing with that information.
Why?… well, according to Nir, it’s because you don’t believe.
Not in the outcome.
Not in the process.
Not in yourself.
That’s the gap… and it’s one most of us don’t like to admit.
Because it’s easier to say we need better data… better strategy… better timing.
It’s harder to say… “I don’t believe this will work for me.”
Or even worse… “I don’t believe I can do it.”
Nir tells a story on the show about dieting that hit a little too close to home.
Every diet worked… until it didn’t.
Not because the diet changed… but because the belief did.
The moment doubt crept in… the results disappeared.
Which makes you wonder how many things in business work the same way.
Let’s think about culture.
At its core, culture is just shared belief.
What matters… what works… what is possible when we work together.
And if those beliefs don’t support the direction… no amount of strategy will fix it.
So, if you dig into this deeper, and if beliefs are tools… not truths… then we have more control than we think.
We can question them… swap them… choose them.
Not blindly or irrationally… but intentionally.
It moves us from, “Is this absolutely true?”
To… “Is this useful?”
Because it forces us to confront the idea that the best beliefs are really just the ones that help us move forward…
And also look at how many are quietly keeping us exactly where we are?
Because if belief is the lever… then this is the real work.
Then most of us aren’t stuck because we don’t know what to do.
We’re stuck because we’re holding onto beliefs that no longer serve us.
And the hardest part isn’t learning something new.
It’s letting go of what you thought was true.
Maybe we need to replace language like, “what should I do next?” with, “what would I need to believe for this to work?”
Because until that shifts… the answers don’t really matter… and maybe they never did…
What matters is whether we believe enough to act on them… or whether we keep collecting answers we’ll never use.
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